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The Sound of Silence
Friday, October 06, 2017 94 comments
I began my 8 years at Spark in silence and although I am still here, I have fallen silent again. Thank you to all who have inquired about my situation. I apologize for my lack of response. You do deserve an explanation. Since the t... Read more

Images from the Past for a 90 Year Old Audience
Sunday, August 13, 2017 72 comments
What are these sailors doing? It’s 1945 and they are watching the USS Augusta where King George VI of England is visiting President Truman in... Read more

The Impact of a 72 Year Old Discovery
Monday, August 07, 2017 74 comments
15 days ago my status and blog asked “Can I do it again?” as I described my chorale’s upcoming 7 day singing tour of Canada. The answer – YES! Even though our schedule didn’t allow time for SP beyond logging in to keep my streak alive, the res... Read more

Can I do it again?
Sunday, July 23, 2017 73 comments
I may only blog about once a week, but staying connected with Spark for the inspiration and motivation I get from others is very important to me. I credit it with staying in maintenance range all these 7 years. Last month during our cruise... Read more

It’s Not Where You Start, It’s Where You Finish
Tuesday, July 18, 2017 87 comments
That’s the title of a song from the musical “Seesaw.” I’ve learned from Spark People that even if things are going badly, just keep your eye on the goal and keep going. That’s just what happened on Saturday. Even though I just celebrated ... Read more

The Verdict – Did I Out-Run, Out-Walk, Out-Tour My Fork?
Monday, July 10, 2017 211 comments
Thanks to Spark People I know how to maintain my weight at home (over 7 years now). I login every morning for my daily dose of motivation and follow the plan. On a 16 day cruise through 5 countries on the rivers of Europe it’s more diffic... Read more

Food for the Body, Mind and Spirit
Tuesday, July 04, 2017 81 comments
OK, I am on a cruise after all, so you know there will be food. We're also visiting 5 countries along the river and the food is part of the culture. So how to keep my MAINtenance goal in mind while still thoroughly enjoying the experience? ... Read more

A Bridge Too Far?
Thursday, June 29, 2017 92 comments
That was the title of a WWII movie about "Operation Market Garden," an unsuccessful attempt to secure a distant bridge over the Rhine before the retreating Nazis could destroy them. I took this photo on my morning run. ... Read more

Following in Dad's Footsteps - Choices, Past and Present
Sunday, June 25, 2017 153 comments
In WWII my Dad served on a "cruiser" the USS Philadelphia 72 years later, I am "cruising" in the same waters. He didn't have a choice as to his destination, but because he and his generation served, I do have a choice This trip will inc... Read more

The Spark “Solution” Gave Us a Happy Father’s Day
Sunday, June 18, 2017 172 comments
Spark became my “solution” long before I ever read Spark Guy’s book. I didn’t know he even wrote a book. Years after I came out of my self-imposed spark hermitage and realized the value of logging in every day, even after reaching my goal weig... Read more

Things Change – Attitudes Change – I CHANGED!
Wednesday, June 14, 2017 191 comments
Do you know what these are? An ice cream dish and juice glass from 1960 Each was designed to hold a “portion” (1/2 cup of ice cream and 4 oz of orange juice) ... Read more

Many successful journeys began with a rocky start
Friday, June 09, 2017 177 comments
So often we set off on a journey with great hopes and plans only to find the road is bumpy and full of potholes. This is true of the road to a healthy lifestyle/goal weight, as many sparkers can attest, and many other areas of life as well. ... Read more

Not "snakes on a plane" just "steps on a train"
Tuesday, June 06, 2017 31 comments
Thank you Sparkers for your comments and good wishes on my last blog. While our NYC celebration recreating our youth didn't leave much time for SP, the principles are a permanent part of my outlook on life. NYC makes it easy to eat healthy. ... Read more

"50 Years of Maintenance"
Saturday, June 03, 2017 165 comments
Patience , persistence & a little bit of luck. That was my answer to the desk clerk who asked us how one stays married for 50 years. We're celebrating the event back in NYC where it all began. We wanted to walk the streets and v... Read more

My HERO - Head Over Heels Over Head (literally)
Monday, May 29, 2017 48 comments
Check out and congratulate this Sparker Age 50+ lost 85 pounds, 3 years in maintenance, recovered from pelvic fracture and now can do CARTWHEELS! "Cartwheel Evidence" (Jeanknee) www.sparkpeople.com/mypa
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Never forget to remember
Sunday, May 28, 2017 38 comments
What do we REMEMBER on Memorial Day? The last weekend in May is a time to get together with family and friends. This is a good thing. It’s a time to appreciate what we have . Let's also remember why we have those things and those ... Read more

It's not a plateau, it's "mini-maintenance"
Friday, May 26, 2017 205 comments
Plateaus are depressing to many people. There are plenty of blogs and articles written about the negative effect they have on our motivation. What if I think about it geographically? Standing on a plateau gives me a chance to see wher... Read more

When Sparkers Meetup in NYC, What do they do?
Tuesday, May 23, 2017 58 comments
Ride the Carrousel in Bryant Park! Left to right, that’s Phebess, Sylphinprogress and me. Here we are with “Patience” one of the lions guarding ... Read more

How to get to Carnegie Hall? How to fit into your gown?
Thursday, May 18, 2017 51 comments
Practice, practice, practice is the jovial answer to the first part. As for losing the weight to fit into your performance gown, that's where Spark People comes in. ... Read more

A Vacuum attracts Junk - What Choices Will I Make?
Friday, May 12, 2017 155 comments
My vacuum cleaner picks up the dirt and junk that gathers daily on my floor. That's the job it was designed for and it does it automatically. Unfortunately, the same thing can happen in our daily lives unless we make a conscious effor... Read more

A Salute to All the Younger Sparkers
Saturday, May 06, 2017 192 comments
" No reason to apologize to me" I told the young mother ahead of me at the grocery checkout. She had a child by her side and one in the seat of the cart which I noticed was full of healthy selections (oatmeal not sugar cereal, produce etc.) The... Read more

Going HOME - Where is that exactly?
Saturday, April 29, 2017 86 comments
A building? A town? "Where the heart is?" A state of mind? Does it even have to be a real place anymore when so many of our connections are electronic? I have "HOMEpages" - One is on my website, one is here on Spark. People visit my "h... Read more

The Power of Blogs
Tuesday, April 18, 2017 51 comments
Some blogs are descriptions of daily activities. I read those. Keeping connected with friends is important. I do that on Facebook too. Spark can be an extension of social media. You might even stumble across a kindred spirit and make a new f... Read more



Sparked to Go For It!
Sunday, April 09, 2017 185 comments
I login to Spark every morning for my daily dose of motivation. I especially like the list of new blogs. Those are the people from all around the world who are sparking right along with me at that very moment. However, yesterday was the o... Read more

One hundred years ago today
Thursday, April 06, 2017 49 comments
The USA entered World War I and 2 babies were born hundreds of miles apart. One was the son of immigrants. One was the descendant of a family that had lived here for centuries. It was a time of great upheaval. Europe was ruled by ... Read more

The Crisscross Effect - My checkbook balance and my scale display
Friday, March 31, 2017 142 comments
Both are just numbers. Both give me a snapshot of a particular moment in time. Neither one defines me as a person, but I cannot dismiss either one as irrelevant. Both give me important information that I ignore at my peril. Both num... Read more

The "Crisscross Effect" - Connecting Goals in Different Areas of Life
Friday, March 24, 2017 172 comments
At first glance these two photos do not appear to have anything in common. But they are indeed both personal challenges that Spark principles are helping me to conquer. Both are examples of testing the limit of my ability. My house is on a... Read more

Thank You Kelliebean - my personal motivator of the day
Saturday, March 11, 2017 40 comments
I woke up with negative thoughts. The wind was howling creating a wind chill of 24 degrees. That is NOT how this weather wimp wanted to do a 5k training run this morning. I truly would have bailed except for my daily Spark login and read... Read more

A Most Important Message for the Young and Future Generations
Wednesday, March 08, 2017 196 comments
If you are overweight, do not fall for the hype to lose the weight quickly! There is a dark side to following that path. Through the weight loss/regain chronicles of celebrities, reality TV shows, statistics of the general population... Read more

Why spending time on Spark is different and more worthwhile than Facebook
Friday, March 03, 2017 77 comments
" I have legitimate conversations with others about weight loss, health issues, the ups and downs of the journey. And for this - I have become stronger, I have become more motivated, I have become a better me!" I didn’t write that. I read i... Read more

What to do when things don't go as planned?
Tuesday, February 28, 2017 175 comments
Turn to the best resource Spark has to offer - the Spark People! I always turn to the blogs first, especially the blogs of the "helpers" Something there always gives me my daily dose of motivation. Yes, there are lots of useful resou... Read more

A Different View of Functional Fitness
Friday, February 24, 2017 43 comments
Some years ago my daughter Jeannie (Hayburner1969) gave me a set of dumbbells for Christmas. My mother was in her eighties and not only needed a walker but also could not raise her arms above her head. That meant she needed help getting dress... Read more

What can we learn from our Spark friends?
Tuesday, February 21, 2017 35 comments
How to SUCCEED with their encouragement! I woke up 3 hours late lacking motivation. Maybe I’ll just read or putter around the house. Oh, why not check in with those who understand how this program works. And I read: “I Succeed W... Read more

Any Sparkers near Munich?
Saturday, February 18, 2017 41 comments
Pianist Sparker Hayburner1969 makes her European debut on March 3rd as part of a 3 day International Concert Series. www.gasteig.de/veranstal
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I Know You Love Me - It's OK to Skip the Chocolate
Saturday, February 11, 2017 215 comments
It wasn't always this way. Feb 14, 1964 my boyfriend of 8 months brought me the biggest box of candy I had ever seen. It was a HUGE valentine box, 2 feet wide. I even knew how much it cost because I passed that "homemade chocolate" candy sho... Read more

"Hold on until Rescued" - Strength and Endurance
Monday, February 06, 2017 69 comments
It was 1964 and I was a high school senior. It was the first year our school participated in the President's Physical Fitness challenge. It seems that statistics showed we were getting "soft" or maybe it was another attempt for us to keep up w... Read more

"To Have and Have Not" - Finding an Unexpected Spark Lesson
Monday, January 30, 2017 156 comments
I spent most of Saturday at a high school swim meet. It was the conference championship and I had a connection to two of the schools. Two of my grandchildren are students at school 'A' and one more is a graduate One of my grandkids is... Read more

Going the extra mile for the team - the 5% challenge team
Tuesday, January 24, 2017 72 comments
Although I like being active, running, walking, any kind of movement, I can settle into a rut. Spark always gives me a boost, sometimes even a needed kick in the pants. So, after 8 years here I joined my very first 5% challenge. I've se... Read more

The Streak I'm Most Proud of and What I’m Most Grateful for
Wednesday, January 18, 2017 173 comments
Today is the 1000th day straight that I have logged into Spark. It's also DH's 72nd birthday. How appropriate that they should coincide. I begin every day with a cup of coffee that Joe made for me, just as he has done every morning for ne... Read more

Challenge, Who needs a challenge? Oops, I guess I do!
Friday, January 13, 2017 181 comments
Challenges are a big part of the spark world. We get invitations when we first join, on the start page, in email, through team activities or even through the posts of friends. In 8 years I think I've done 3. 30 days of fiber - check, I'm... Read more

Following advice (or not) sometimes depends on the source
Wednesday, January 11, 2017 40 comments
My daughter, who recognized that I needed to make some changes, gave me a food scale for Christmas a decade ago. Eh, who needs it! I eat healthy food Then she gave me a set of dumbbells. Eh, who needs those! Look how fit I am. ... Read more

"Off to See the Wizard" - Following the Spark Road
Sunday, January 08, 2017 222 comments
It may not be made of yellow bricks and it doesn't end at the Land of Oz, but it is a path well worth following. There are general directions posted. There are guidelines for nutrition and calorie ranges, tracking tools, and articles to re... Read more

The Road not Taken...The Pie not Eaten
Wednesday, January 04, 2017 194 comments
With apologies to Robert Frost who poetically described: "Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,. And sorry I could not travel both" I'm thinking about the 2 roads I have traveled. One was smooth sailing with lots of billboards for all ... Read more

The Comfort of a Comforter
Tuesday, January 03, 2017 42 comments
During this holiday we had a full house one night which required getting out some extra blankets from the plastic storage bags in the closet. After everyone left I was preparing to pack things away when suddenly this triggered some memori... Read more

What Would Grandma Think of My Excuses?
Monday, January 02, 2017 28 comments
I always find motivation by logging into Spark. Sometimes it hits close to home. My DD#1 Hayburner1969 is BACK to Spark after 15 months of going it alone! Her blog this morning was a nice surprise that got me thinking too. "It'... Read more

What the World Needs Now is...
Sunday, January 01, 2017 33 comments
I posted my status about taking our 6 grandkids to a photo session to recreate a 2004 picture. This is NOT it, but on the walk back to our cars... Read more